Older LGBTQ+ people in the UK are facing a “double disadvantage” of ageing and social isolation, according to a new report highlighting a growing crisis in care and community support. The Centre for Ageing Better warns that as the population of older LGBTQ+ adults grows, many fear their identities will be ignored or erased by mainstream health and social care services.
The “State of Ageing” report reveals that the number of lesbian, gay, and bisexual people aged 50 and over in the UK has increased by a third in just five years, rising from 343,000 in 2019 to 457,000 in 2024. Despite this growth, the research suggests that this demographic is significantly more likely to live alone and lack the informal support networks often provided by children or extended family.
Data from the report indicates that 55% of gay and bisexual men aged 65 and over live alone, compared to 25% of heterosexual men in the same age bracket. Furthermore, only 55% of gay and bisexual men over 50 say they “definitely agree” they have someone to help them if they were in need, compared to higher averages among the general population.
A ‘postcode lottery’ of support
The findings describe a “postcode lottery” for specialist services. This leaves many older adults feeling invisible as they navigate a social care system that may not be trained to meet their specific needs or history.
The Centre for Ageing Better expressed concerns that older members of the community often feel they must “go back into the closet” when entering care homes or receiving home visits from carers, fearing judgment or a lack of understanding from staff.
Local support in West Sussex
While national figures highlight a lack of provision, there are established services operating within West Sussex to provide peer support and mental health assistance for the LGBTQ+ community. West Sussex Mind runs a dedicated LGBTQIA+ peer support programme designed to reduce isolation and provide a safe space for residents.
A regular support group meets in Littlehampton, providing a local resource for those in the Bognor Regis and surrounding areas. The group is held on the third Tuesday of every month from 2:00pm to 3:30pm. These sessions offer an opportunity for individuals to share experiences and connect with others in a supportive environment.
Information regarding specific meeting locations for the Littlehampton group and other West Sussex peer support sessions can be found via the West Sussex Mind website. Professionals and individuals can also contact the charity directly to enquire about social care training and inclusive support services available in the region.